英语:到底是接动词不定式还是接动名词?

wish, want, would like, would prefer(), wish,希望、愿意), wonder,考题 1. We agreed ____C____ here but so far she hasn’t turned up yet. (全国卷)
A. having met B. meeting C. to meet D. to have met
2. She pretended __A____me when I passed by. (全国卷)
A. not to see B. not seeing C. to not see D. having not seen3、I have learned to drive the car.
4、They refused to accept my suggestion.
5、He promised to come.6、I decide to take a walk outside.我觉得憋气.我决定去外面散散步.7、I wish to see you soon.我希望早些见到你.二、只能接动名词作宾语的动词和短语appreciate, admit, avoid, allow, pay attention to,admit to,adapt to ,adjust to,appeal to,advise,accuse…of控告；谴责,aim at 目的在于,旨在；瞄准；企图,acknowledge,bear,ban,be fundamental to,be dedicated to,be accustomed to,burst out,consider, can’t help, cater to,can't stand,come near,deny,delay,devote to,due to,defer,dislike,enjoy,be equal to(能胜任；等同于),excuse,escape,finish, forbid,fancy,get down to (认真处理),give up,have a good/wonderful/hard time (in),have done,imagine ,involve,include,key...to,look forward to sth./doing (sth.),lead to,mind, miss, mention,object to,owing to,practise, practice, pardon,prevent,postpone,put off,quit,risk,resist,refer to,recall,suggest,stand,see to (负责),stick to,be suited to,submit to(being done) 服从, save,turn to doing (改行..),spend time (in), thank you for,understand,witness to, 例如：
2、She suggested spending another week in the country.
3、Do you feel like taking a walk.4、I really appreciate having time to relax with you on this nice island．（2001上海高考） 5、While shopping, people sometimes can't help being persuaded into buying something they don't really need (上海96)6、I can't stand working with Jane in the same office, she just refuses to stop talking while she works.(北京2006) 7、I enjoy cycling.我喜欢骑脚踏车.8、I forget that you dislike smoking.我忘记你不喜欢抽烟了.9、Excuse(Forgive,Pardon) my interrupting you.原谅我打扰你了.10、She couldn't help smiling at the words.听了这话她禁不住笑了. 顺口溜 : 考虑建议盼原谅,承认推迟没得想； 避免错过继续练, 否认完成就欣赏； 禁止想象才冒险,不禁介意准逃亡；难以忍受始反对,想要成功坚持忙； 习惯放弃有困难,导致专心防道歉.第一句包含的动词有：consider, suggest/advise, look forward to, excuse/pardon,第二节包含的动词有：admit, delay/put off, fancy（想像,想要）,第三句包含的动词有：avoid, miss, keep/keep on, practice,第四句句包含的动词有：deny（否认,拒绝）, finish, enjoy/appreciate,第五句包含的动词有：forbid, imagine, risk第六句包含的动词有：can't help, mind, allow/permit, escape.第七句包含的动词有：can't stand(难以忍受）,set about 开始,着手,object to（反对）,第八句包含动词有：feel like（想要）,succeed in (成功),stick to(坚持) ,insist on（坚持,强调,坚决要求） ,be busy (in)（忙于做某事）第九句包含的动词有：be used/accustomed to(习惯于……),give up（放弃）,have difficulty/trouble (in), （做某事有困难）第十句包含的动词有：lead to（导致）, devote to（将…奉献给；把…专用于）, prevent…… from……（ 预防,防止）,apologize for（为……道歉）, , 三、既能接动名词也能接不定式作宾语的动词和短语1、接动名词或不定式意义上差别不大的：Need,like(喜欢),love(喜欢),hate(憎恨),prefer(宁可),begin(开始),start(开始),continue(继续),can’t bear(不能忍受),bother(麻烦),intend(想要),attempt(试图),cease(停止), 注意：当 like, love, hate, prefer 与 would/should 连用时；当 begin/ start 本身为进行时态或后接 know, realize, understand 等静态动词时,其后的动词只能用不定式.注意:在like, love, prefer等动词后,若表示经常性的抽象的动作,多用动名词作宾语；若指特定的或具体的行动,则用不定式更多一些.例如：注意:在begin/start等词的后面, 在下面三种情况下,后接动词不定式较好:
主语是物而不是人时：Ice begins to melt.
本身是v-ing 形式时: We are starting to clean the classroom.
其后的动词与想法,感情有关时：I begin to realize that he is wrong.
例如：I like swimming, but I don’t like to swimming today.
She prefers walking to cycling.
I prefer to stay at home today.I’d like to tell you something. 我想告诉你一些情况.I’d hate to spend Christmas alone. 我不喜欢一个人过圣诞节.He was beginning to cook. 他开始做饭.He started to realize that he was wrong. 他开始意识到自己错了.
2、接动名词或不定式意义上差别很大的：remember, forget, regret, stop, mean, tryregret 后接动名词,通常表示:对已发生的情况表示后悔,跟不定式通常表示:对将来的情况表示抱歉.mean后接动名词,通常表示:意味着,不定式通常表示:打算干什么.try 后接动名词,通常表示:式一式做某事,跟不定式通常表示:设法去做某事.例如：
I remembered posting the letter today. 我记得今天把信寄走了.
Please remember to post the letter today. 请别忘了今天把信寄走.
I regret to inform you that you won’t be able to attend the class.我们遗憾地通知你们,你们将不能参加这个班.
I regretted having done such a thing.我后悔做了这样一件事.
Failing this exam means waiting for a year.这次考式不通过意味着要等上一年.
I didn’t mean to argue with you.我不想和你争辩. Let’s trying doing the work in this way.这项工作咱们这样式式看.