they were not calm enough and both said some really mean things

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they were not calm enough and both said some really mean things
这句话怎么翻译,主要是后面那部分(多谢)

他们双方不够冷静,都说了一些实在刻薄的东西.
因为mean的意思有:
v.表示…的意思; 意思是; 打算; 产生…结果;
adj.吝啬的; 刻薄的; 破旧的; 残忍的;
n.平均数; 中间; 几何平均; 等比中数;
而且前面说not calm enough,看一下语境,前后文对照,才能翻译正确.多谢