谁能帮我翻译一下(英译中)

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谁能帮我翻译一下(英译中)
Understand you if hope looks for a man , had better look for a man to accommodate self to you.

与其寻找着他的身影,不如等待他来找你
(与其在茫茫人海中寻觅,不如等待幸福来敲门)