请指出下列句子的语法点或要注意的单词及其用法或句子结构等
问题描述：
请指出下列句子的语法点或要注意的单词及其用法或句子结构等
It brings sympathy from others who are delighted not to be you,and it allows family and friends to lower their expectations of you so that you need not compete with those who have more talent and who succeed.
请说得具体点，
答
It brings sympathy from others 这从别人那里带来同情（即：这让别人同情你）是个主句
who are delighted not to be you,定语从句（那些庆幸不是你的人）,修饰前面的others
and 连词,连接前后两个主句
it allows family and friends to lower their expectations of you 这让你的家人和朋友放低对你的期望,是个主句
so that you need not compete with those who have more talent and who succeed.
上一行,是so that 引导的结果状语从句.其中：who have more talent and who succeed是两个定语从句,修饰前面的those.（以致于你不用和那些比你更有天赋和成功的人进行竞争）