请指出下列句子的语法点或要注意的单词及其用法或句子结构等It brings sympathy from others who are delighted not to be you,and it allows family and friends to lower their expectations of you so that you need not compete with those who have more talent and who succeed.请说得具体点，

请指出下列句子的语法点或要注意的单词及其用法或句子结构等
It brings sympathy from others who are delighted not to be you,and it allows family and friends to lower their expectations of you so that you need not compete with those who have more talent and who succeed.
请说得具体点，