做人要对自己狠一点（女人,有时要对自己狠一点） 英文怎么说如题,最好是地道的英语,而不是字面翻译,

As a human being,one should be malicious to himself;as a lady,one should also be hard to herself sometimes

Sometimes， you need to push yourself.

To be as ruthless some of their own(women,sometimes ruthless some of their own)