charity begin at home （博爱始于自家）这是个西方谚语 我是反方三辩,求资料.

First,charity means love and being merciful.So may be we will come up with a question that when and where our consciousness of love begin to come into being?Perhaps most people will respond that it is...大神、、、我是反方啊。。。。哦，那正方观点你大概参详一下，想想如何反击吧。Here is the opposite views.1.It is true that everyone learns what love is from their family.But charity means more than love.It should be defined as showing mercy to everyone else even when he is a stranger or an enemy.You can't denied that being kindhearted to someone you don't know is more challenging than that to your relationships.2.Charity represents a higher level of morality while affection toward families is just a kind of instinct. What decides one's ethics is the education he or she receives,and it is schools and the society itself that largely make the children know what the real world is.