I have a lot of clothes to be washed. 与 i have a lot of clothes to wash. 哪个对呀?谢谢!请给出原因!

都对，两种用法都可以的

都对
第一句是说"我有好多衣服需要被洗".这句是被动语态
第二句是说"我有好多衣服要洗'.是主动语态

动词不定式做定语有两种情况:
1.不定式与被修饰的词是逻辑上的主谓关系.I have a lot of clothes to be washed便属于这种情况,clothes 与to be washed 是逻辑上的主谓关系,所以洗衣服这个动作的施动者可能是他人.又如:
the next train to arrive was from New York
All dead. I was the only one to grow up
He was always the first to come and last to leave
2.不定式与被修饰的词是逻辑上的动宾关系,即所谓的反射不定式.这种用法通常是发生在一些比较常见的动词上,如to remember, to do, to go, to see
i have a lot of clothes to wash就属于这种情况.又如:
he has too many things to do
i have nothing to say on this question
i need a pen to write with
give me some paper to write on
there are some things to be grateful for
通常情况下,这个动词的施动者就是句子的主语(当然如果被修饰的词是主语便例外),因此我们认为第二句的逻辑主语是I,可是也有例外,如:
it was a game to remember.
两句话有细微的意思差别.通常情况下,我们都是用第二句,第一句隐含了要别人衣服的意思,所以不是在特殊的语境下是不用的.

to be washed可以自己洗，也可以是叫别人洗，或者拿去洗衣店洗
to wash指自己洗

都对.那要看你表达的是什麽意思了!前一句是让别人洗,或送去洗衣店洗.to wash是自己去洗.再给你一个例子:I have a lot of homework to be done.I have a lot of homework to do.但自己的作业还是自己做的好!