What have been the most important surprises you have noticed from things getting out of control?

When things get out of control, it is a sign that significiant change is happening. Change is a necessary process for growth and Life itself is about growing. Congratulations!
Why do we have to assume that we know what everything is for, what everyone is supposed to be and why things happened the way they did?
Without any effort from me, the Sun goes up every morning and the rain falls every spring. Birds sing and flowers bloom whether I am aware of them or not.
Is it so important that everything goes the way you expected? Relax and sit back. Let the Force show you how wonderfully great everything is when you let go.
Control? Who needs it!