To forgive is to set a *er free and discover that the *er was you

问题描述:

To forgive is to set a *er free and discover that the *er was you

字面意思是 原谅就是放罪犯*,后来发现那个罪犯就是自己.
我理解的意思是 原谅就是对自己的纵容.
这是我的理解呀,也许会有更好的答案,这仅仅作参考.