It's bad to be paid more attention because thinking too much about oneself may cause depression.Why?Please explain the sentence in Chinese.I don‘t know the phrase ...（to be paid more attention是被动语太吗？）

a quote from :they only wish to pass for what they are , and they are unwilling to appear what they are not; they are always thinking of themselves, measuring their words, and recalling their thoughts, and reviewing their actions, from the fear that they have done too much or too little. These persons are sincere, but they are not simple; they are not at ease with others, and others are not at ease with them; the are not free, ingenuous, natural. what i want to say is if u have paid too much attention on yourself ignoring what happend around you , you will feel unease and isolated. As Maslow said, people must have a sense of adscription.

给予过多的注意是糟糕的,因为自我思考太多会造成忧郁.