what if I can't go abroad...I dream going abroad,but I don'thave chances,I have to stay at homewhile my classmates are all abroadstaying and studing or having good jobs or having causes tolive there.Being a man withoutfuture in China,what should I

MORE CONFIDENCE!
I think I'm in the same conditions as you are. Studying aboard IS your future. It's reasonable, and reachable.
Yes, okay, studying aboard probably means loads of hardships, maybe many years of learning and working. That's the point. That's what you have to overcome if you don't want to give up.
But just remember this. There are a group of people who are striving to leave China, and their way are much tougher and bitterer than ours! In southeastern China, many people go abroad and stay at these countries illegally. Truly, they just stay there directly. Fortunately, the governments are quite tolerant. They can get by without legal identity. Ironically, their lives could be even better than before, and the governments even grant them their nationalities after a decade or two. Compared with them, we are lucky.
AND, MONEY IS NOT A VITAL PROBLEM!
Once you get into a college of western countries, the rest of your difficulties is only learning. The financial problem never influences your credits or degree. Just learning, graduating and repaying your loans, if any.
So, that's all. Believe in your powers, believe in your heart. I think we are both on our ways. Nothing deserves your fear.
Contact me on Baidu.com if you have any ideas or suggestions. I just ended my sophomore year, preparing for GRE and all kinds of stuff.
Well, anyway, do not ever leave any reason to regret in your life. That's my way.

Well.Its not a pity that you cannot go abroad for further academic studies.I hope you can keep a positive attitude toward it.Here i wanna share one of my favourite motto with you."Dont aim for success if you want it,just do what you love and believe in,it will come naturally to you".
Wish you success in the future.

ry your best to change it,don't wait.

你已经无望到连母语都不愿意说的地步了么...
如果实在无法出国，那就请继续过完你这可悲又无望的人生吧，在中国...

No1 You can't just say you have no future in China.It's all depend on you. You can make a difference in China.
No2 Do not admire others, just handle your own business well.
No3 If you really want to go abroad, you can apply some foreign colleges and explain your condtions.
No4 Of course,MONEY is the most important thing.

Just stop complaining.We always have choices.All men do .Though sometimes we are the ones who have to be chosen.We're chosen to be given chances sometimes and to be the lucky ones.But it doesn't even matter.
Life is still something new as you probably haven't lived it though yet.It's everything.We're alive.And we need to follow it through.Good luck.

Gold will glitter forver.
Don't say no to yourself.
Just trust yourslf that you can do better.
Maybe,people who go abroad will fall behind you in the end.
You have a warm home,many friends and students.That will give you the vigor to pursue your dream and sustain to work harder.

写英文,有气魄.其实出国就是要钱砸,只要有真才实学不论在那里前途都是一片光明,想想能够在自己的故土,不失也是一种快乐

You just need to think deeply about this!
Why they can go abroad? because they have a rich family? then do not worry, because most people like this will come back with nothing learned. They just waste money overthere.
If it is because they are top students, why don't you be one of this kind? If you beccome on top, you will have the chance as well!

像你这么悲观，怨天尤人，出国难道就有出路了？你应该感激国家愿意养你这么一个白眼狼，
社会的悲哀啊~~还有，觉得母语不好，你的英语也得好点。I have to stay at home while my classmates are all abroad staying and studing or having good jobs or having causes to live there.什么乱七八糟的句子？幸亏是中国人看，外国人不笑话你？？

以阁下这种心态和素质，恐怕在什么国家都是没有未来的，自重！

谁说只有出国才有未来啊...楼主振作点吧...

if you have enough money ,everything is possible
If it is only a dream ,please be practical
you can also have a good future in China