Children and parents,having grown up at different times,have different likes and dislikes原句是Children and parents,having grown up at different times,have differentlikes and dislikes for the things around them and thus have little in common totalk about,第二个还是用having吗还是have?
问题描述：
Children and parents,having grown up at different times,have different likes and dislikes
原句是
Children and parents,having grown up at different times,have different
likes and dislikes for the things around them and thus have little in common to
talk about,
第二个还是用having吗还是have?
答
第二个用having不能用have
这里的having 是非谓语的用法，这里相当于一个定语从句 "who have grown up at different times".
而后面的 have different likes .... and thus ahve little ...这两个 have 是作谓语来用（作实语动词，表“有”的意思），主语是前面的 children and parents.
这里关键是你要理解 ：一个是非谓语 ，一个是谓语。
答
用have就可以,与前面的have 短语 并列
having grown up at different times做原因状语.