this is the very place which i'm wishingto live inin which=wherethis is the very place where i'm wishingto live两个句子用得对不对,还有如果是that应怎么用

用得不对．只能用that . This is the very place that I'm wishing to live in.

两个句子都对，that是 This is the very place that i'm wishingto live in.

不对.只能用that.this is the very place that i'm wishingto live in.定语从句有几种情况只能用关系代词that引导
1、先行词被the very、the only、the same、the last修饰.题目就是这种情况
2、先行词被序数词或形容词*修饰
3、先行词被all、any、every、few、each、no、some等修饰
4、先行词是不定代词all、few、little、much、something、nothing、anything等
5、先行词既有人又有物时
6、在以who、which引起的问句中为避免重复,后面常用that引导定从

语法上用 where, which 和 that都没错，但 that 比较习惯：
This is the very place that I wish to live in.
另外，用 wish 比 am wishing 适合点。 后者意味着 “I am wishing at this very moment", but I may change my mind the very next moment.
还有， where 和 that 有一个区别，
where I wish to live 有 the very spot （准确地点）的意思， 而
that I wish to live 则有地方之意 （没那么准确）。