Does the love strived for make person feel more beatific than that given

Does the love strived for make person feel more beatific than that given
Here is a question I want to know .Who can tell me that ,please
Does the love strived for make person feel more beatific than that given
这句话我想说 “自己所争取的爱情比等待别人给予的会更加幸福么 ”