1.Love is not counting the days but to make every day meaningful.
问题描述：
1.Love is not counting the days but to make every day meaningful.
2.I don't cry,it is not because I'm strong,but to give you reliance when you cry.
not... but这是如何平行的?
答
1.Love is not counting the days
but to make every day meaningful.
平行结构:
Love is not counting the days
Love is to make every day meaningful.
一个是动名词,一个是不定式,都是is的宾语
动名词强调正在发生
不定式强调即将发生（意愿）
2.it is not because I'm strong,
but to give you reliance when you cry.
平行结构:
it is not because I'm strong,
it is to give you reliance when you cry.
一个是从句,一个是不定式,都是is的宾语
从句强调原因
不定式强调即将发生（意愿）