英语翻译I'll be there for you ...maybepeople are getting married and having children later than ever.But if they can afford it,they don't want to stay with their parents.After all,you can't choose your family,but you can choose your friends.So isn't it a good idea to live with them instead?Not necesarily.A recent study suggests that more and more young single people are living on their own instead of sharing with their fiends.If you think about it,it's no
英语翻译
I'll be there for you ...maybe
people are getting married and having children later than ever.But if they can afford it,they don't want to stay with their parents.After all,you can't choose your family,but you can choose your friends.So isn't it a good idea to live with them instead?
Not necesarily.
A recent study suggests that more and more young single people are living on their own instead of sharing with their fiends.
If you think about it,it's not surprising.
Rachel,Chandler and their friends may always be there for each other,but in the real world our relationships with our friends can be just as complicated as those with our families.
Friends can be interfering,jealous and competitive.They can make outrageous demands on you and treat you as if they own you.
Sometimes you don't want to see them so you make up excuses,and then feel guilty.And at other times you feel obliged to ramain friends with someone you don't actually like anymore.
Maybe that's why I felt good when I lost my mobile phone recently.All my friend' numbers were stored in it,so I had a good excuse to see only the friends I really wanted to see
I'm not saying I don't need my friends.They have been there to help me when my family wasn't.We have had lots of good times togeter.I would feel lost without them.
But,maybe we should admit that our friendships aren't perfect and learn not to ask too much from them.
We choose our friends because they're good company and they make us laugh
Not because we want to live with them
我将为了你们而融入,也许吧,天知道.
人们结婚生子比以往都要晚.他们不愿意与父母待在一起,除非他们能够承担的起这些东西.毕竟,你不能选择你的家庭,但是你能选择你的朋友.所以,以朋友取而代之难道不是一个好主意嘛?
当然不是必需的
近代教育使更多的单身年轻人像个独行侠而不愿与朋友分享生活.
如果你也这么想,并不值得惊讶
Rachel, Chandler和他们的朋友一直在一起,但是在现实的世界里,有时候朋友间的友谊会变得与父母见一样复杂.
朋友间可能会变得妨碍彼此,嫉妒,猜疑彼此更糟糕的是会出现不良的竞争等等.他们可能会蛮横的要求你,或者对待你像是对待他们拥有的东西一样而不在乎对方的感受.
有时候你根本不想见他们所以找一些借口,同时你会充满罪恶感.然而,有时,作为朋友,你会充满*感与好多不情愿,事实上,你根本不想那样.
也许这就是为什么当我的手机最近丢掉的时候却感觉舒畅.你知道,所有的朋友的号码都被记录在里边,所以我有一个很好的借口并且去见我真正想见到的朋友.
我不是说我不需要朋友.当我遇到困难父母爱莫能助的时候,他们帮了我好多,我们曾在一起有过很好的时光.但我能感觉它在慢慢逝去.
但是,也许我们可以容忍彼此不完美的友谊,并且学着不要向彼此索求太多.
我们选择朋友是因为那是很好的伙伴并且可以使彼此快乐
而不是因为我们只想与他们住在一起
同意你的观点,真正的朋友会在乎彼此的感受,不管天涯海角.
我会在那等你 ,可能吧.现在人们结婚和生孩子都比以前要晚了.而且当人们一旦有能力独居的话会选择和父母分开生活.总之,我们不可以选择自己的家庭 但是我们可以选择和怎样的人做朋友.这样的话跟朋友一起生活反而更好了吗.其实并不为然,现在的研究表明越来越多的年轻人更愿意一个人生活,如果你深思下的话这并不奇怪,Rachel,Chandler和他们的朋友么也许会一直在一起,但是在现实生活中我们和朋友之间的关系与家庭之间的关系一样很复杂,朋友之间可以互不干扰,会互相嫉妒,也会相互竞争,他们对待你会像你是他们特有的一样肆无忌惮的要求你.有些时候你不想见到他们因此你会找些借口但是你还是会感觉到内疚.在有些时候你会觉得你不得不和某些你并不想再交往的做朋友.或许这就是为什么最近我觉得丢了手机也是件好事的原因,因为我所有朋友的好那都储存在里面因此我就有个好的借口只见些我真正想见的朋友.我得申明我并不是说我不需要朋友他们确实在很多时候在我家人不能给予帮助的时候援助了我我们也在一起度过了很多美好的时光没有他们我同样觉得很失落,但是我想我们应该承认我们之间的友情并不是很理想我们应该学会不去太多的索取些什么.我们在选择朋友的时候并不是因为要和他们生活在一起而是他们是我们很好的右半他们会让我们开心